badsjw:

socialjust-ish:

theaustinstollhaus:

taco-bell-rey:

they got your text. 

everyone from this generation has a phone and everyone always keeps it close. That “friend” got your text, they got a notification, they either felt it, heard it or saw it. It’s nearly impossible to not see it. They are choosing to ignore you. They aren’t responding and they didnt open it so it doesn’t say “seen″ Get them out of your life, now. If they can’t even give you the dignity of “seen” then give them the satisfaction of “lost”

Or they’re with family. Or they’re busy. Or they have work or responsibilities. Or they’re with their S/O. Or they’re depressed or having a bad day or really just don’t feel up to it right now, because they’re people too and sometimes they break down and sometimes they need time to themselves.

Or they just didn’t get your text.

Please don’t assume that everyone is intentionally ignoring your messages; it’s a really paranoid and unhealthy mentality. And please don’t cut people out of your life over not responding to a text.

Or they saw your text, we’re about to respond and then got distracted.

Some people are just bad texters. Doesn’t mean they don’t want to talk to you, don’t take it so personally. Not everyone is glued to their phones 24/7. Phones can be on silent, completely off, in a different location, or broken. If the message doesn’t say “seen”, then why assume they saw it?

If it’s really a concern, talk to the person who’s “ignoring” you, and they’ll probably reassure you that it’s just a misunderstanding or not as significant as you think it is. Don’t ruin friendships over this.